Only enable the tool query matching the node's provider_type instead of
all four, and use primitive useMemo dependencies instead of the whole
data object to avoid redundant recomputations on every render.
Add `enabled` parameter to tool query hooks so non-plugin nodes
(LLM, Code, IfElse, etc.) avoid registering React Query observers.
Extract shared matching functions into plugin-install-check utils to
eliminate duplicate logic between the hook and the checklist.
